I am 53, divorced with one child who is 16. I wear all black which people conjure up the most amazing fantasies about me, I find that however out there I will just agree with them unless detrimental to myself or family. The reason I do this is from experience, after all if narrow minded or ignorant, it won't alter how I am perceived. Sometimes met with agression, fascination or ignored. The people that know me or bother getting to know me, realise I am a good person, always helpful, happy and intriquing as I am spiritual and love all things, kind and caring but above all, do not judge.
